I’ve been experiencing writer’s block lately, so I thought I’d tell you about my day through a slightly different medium. Enjoy!
Weird title, I know.
By two o’clock today, I had gone to church, worked out, and finished all my weekend homework. All my friends were busy, and I was left with an entire afternoon with nothing to do. I’m an introvert, but too much time alone in my room makes me lonely. It’s like my heart feels heavy and empty and no amount of Netflix can make it better. Knowing I had hours ahead of me in my own company, I didn’t want to waste the day moping around.
So I took action by taking myself on a date.
It was a wonderful afternoon. I sang to the radio during the hour drive to and from Alexandria. I talked to my mom on the phone. I went to see Cinderella a second time and loved it just as much as the first. (Be sure to check out my post about it!) I went out to eat and spent dinner with my favorite John Green novel. (Which, in case you were wondering, is Paper Towns.) I meandered through Target, sighing over pretty clothes and household decorations. I purchased a new purse and the final Hobbit movie. (Be sure to check out my post about that one too!).
On the drive home, I spent a great deal of time meditating on the nostalgia that comes with the end of a season in life. With only a handful of weeks left of college, there are so many aspects of life here that I’ve taken for granted. As I approached Morris, instead of heading to campus, I drove to the overlook just outside of town. Perched on a rock, I watched the sun set over the tiny town I’ve called home these past few years. It was such a beautiful, peaceful moment– one that I know I’ll hold in my heart for a long time.
Afternoons like this one remind me that incredible joy can be found in little things. It felt so good to forget the stresses of college, to drive away, and do things just for the sake of doing them. I think that it’s important to learn to date yourself. You can have a lot of fun and learn a great deal in your own company.
Sundays are the best days of the week.
During the week, I’m constantly on the go. Pair that with volunteering on Friday night, speech judging on Saturday, and a visit from Mom… Sunday is a well-needed break.
My Sundays start by attending church with my old roommates. It’s so good to set aside all my cares and rest in God’s presence. It’s the re-fueling I need to get me through another week. I love my church. I’ve gone there all four years of school and it’s beginning to sink in that I have to start afresh come May.
When church is done, I usually make the trek over to the gym. (I skipped working out today, though, ’cause it was -45 degrees and being outside longer than necessary was not okay.)
Sunday afternoons bring a balance of homework and relaxation. I usually throw on leggings, a comfy sweater, and spend a few hours in the basement of the library pumping out essay drafts. Today, I managed to snag the poetry room. It was absolutely divine.
After all the homework is out of the way, I return to my dorm, make dinner, and spend an evening in introvert paradise. Tonight, I’ll be snacking on chips and salsa while catching up on episodes of Arrow. (I tried for an hour to figure out how to livestream the Oscars on my computer… it ended in failure. I’m pretty cut up about it.)
Yes, I do stay busy on Sundays. But, overall, it’s the most relaxing day of the week. I can choose where I go, what I do, and who I’m with. For once, I have control over my schedule. It’s wonderful to have at least one day of the week to spend quality time resting.
What is your ideal Sunday?